That’s right — today we’re gonna talk about the perfect method for mounting your dildo onto… something in order to provide a sturdy base. We all know the suction cups on the bottom of those things are a lie told to us by “Big Dildo.” I shudder to think of all the near death experiences I’ve had while innocently trying to make money in my shower. Ironically, I have no solutions for securing dildo shower mounts. I do, however, have lots of ideas that will save you energy, time and rug/upholstery burns. Read through these ideas and make them your own. Then you can just ride that D in peace without all the headache of trying to maneuver a lubed up dildo while fucking it. First, let’s go over some fun dildo facts! “The 30,000 Year History Of The Dildo” — I’m pretty sure this is a must read. Here’s some things you will learn: The first silicone dildos were created by a Jamaican man named Gosnell Duncan who approached GE — as in, light bulbs and the inventor of silicone — to create this new generation of “marital aids.” God bless you, sir. Not all dildos are created equal. A nasty set of ingredients known as phthalates are toxic and used extensively by sex toy companies because of the soft, flexible properties it brings to the product. You can find it in dildos made with jelly or PVC. Look for body-safe sex toys that are functionally nonporous. Their surfaces are hard, impenetrable and/or hydrophobic and can be sanitized. These materials are safe for long-term contact with mucous membranes (genitals and rectum) and skin: Silicone (usually platinum-cured) ABS plastic (with or without a PU cote) Certain metals, like stainless steel, aluminum and titanium, when finished properly Glass or stone Here’s some more on sex toys and materials, both safe (and not so safe). Erecting your Dildo Mount Now that we know a bit more about selecting materials, let’s get to the point: erecting your mount! To create a stable, comfortable mount for your toy that is also discreet, we’re going to use Velcro! It’s cheap, easily accessible and comes in a variety of strengths to suit your riding style. Here is a breakdown of all the different strengths available. Next, after you’ve elected your Velcro strength, you’ll need the appropriate adhesive that’s safe and bonds to the materials your dildo is made out of. I know Velcro comes ready to stick right out of the package, but that won’t last when applied to your toy or what you’ve chosen to mount your toy onto. In fact, it’s a good idea to get rid of that adhesive altogether. I recommend using regular acetone-based nail polish remover to get as much of the adhesive off the back of your Velcro as possible. Once you’ve cleaned and prepped your surfaces, use Sil-Poxy adhesive to bond the Velcro to the bottom of your dildo. You should be able to use this to bond the other side of your Velcro to your desired mount. * Follow the instructions on the package for cure times and proper ventilation when using the product. Now that you’ve got your dildo ready to mount, it’s time to decide what you want to mount it to. Fortunately, I made a list of suggestions for you! 1. Your favorite wall! I’ve done this myself, and with careful removal you shouldn’t damage your wall any more than you would with poster tape so no worries. What about the Velcro though? How do you explain that to your guests? You don’t! A handy little disguise I used was a blank outlet cover. I just attached a small amount of Velcro to the inside of the outlet cover to hide my wall mount when I wasn’t using it. Here’s what a typical blank wall plate looks like: 2. Yoga Ball Yoga is difficult, but in this case, not so much. It’s basically doing all the work for you, all you need to do is attach a dildo! This Physio Roll Ball by Gymnic seems particularly useful for our purposes: 3. Gymnastics Tumble Beam A portable gymnastics tumble beam solves so many height issues when trying to ride your dildo. It’s also discrete, many models fold away, not too pricey and can be used for legitimate exercise. This beam and mat set by Tumbl Track is a more elaborate option, but you get the idea: Once you know how easy it is to use Velcro to mount your toys around your home, you’ll be creating new and unique experiences for you and your viewers to enjoy! If you come up with something truly genius or that you’re really proud of, please tweet and share! Happy Riding! XO ~ Your Cam Coach Nikki Night

Next time you're trying to decide what pictures of yourself to post, ask friends what their favorite pics are. Usually they love all your least favorite ones, but there is a reason for this! It's the difference of how we see ourselves vs. how we actually look. Embrace what your friends see and use the images they choose. They'll be closer to real life and viewers will connect with these images of you more easily. People can tell when you're posing in your selfie...and it makes people not like you. What's the secret to a good pose? "Keeping your shoulders down and back lengthens your neck and defines your jawline, and movement suggests energy. When your shoulders are back and you're smiling with open eyes, you’re saying that you are confident, competent and curious." ~ Tess Holliday Use natural, indirect light from a window. "A lot of people think that a high angle looking down is flattering but it’s not the best. There’s too much room between your head and the photos, so I would go closer in and tilt your head so its level with the camera. I try to find natural lighting. Like, the best place for me is in my open doorway" ~ Tess Holliday "Smeyes! You need to be smiling with your mouth AND your eyes!" ~Tyra Banks CHEAT SHEET 1. Hold the camera closer to your face. 2. Natural, indirect light is your friend. 3. Outdoor selfie? Try putting the sun directly behind your head. 4. Want to show off/create some curves? Try a hand high on your hip, a popped knee, or crossed legs. 5. Lying down? Prop your head up with a pillow. 6. Mirror selfie? Make sure you’re in natural light or being lit from the front. 7. Selfies can be a fun, quick way to boost your self-esteem and show yourself some appreciation — don’t let people make you feel bad for taking them, especially if they make YOU feel good! MALES Selfie tips for the guys (Source: 28 best selfie poses for guys to look charming) Don’t make weird faces too often, once in a while a funny face is acceptable, but don’t make a habit of it while clicking selfies. Strong muscles and sexy abs to show off? Go ahead, take lots of selfies. Just don't post them, ALL THE TIME! Once in a while is fine, but there’s a fine line between sharing and flaunting. Avoid clicking too many selfies of only yourself in the frame. Posting too many selfies of yourself will make you look like an attention seeker. And that's not the way the charm works. So get your guys or your girl and click a lot of selfies with them. Or click a selfie with some great backdrop that's really unique. The most important thing while you are taking a selfie is to be yourself. Fake fails in selfies. Love you bb~ Your Cam Coach Nikki Night

The key to a great show is all about building excitement before you go live, and keeping the excitement going after you’ve finished and logged off. A common issue for models is that they don’t know how to build momentum with their social media (Twitter, Snapchat, on site messaging) so they end up having to work harder with longer cam hours because of it. If this sounds like you, then next time you go on try some of these tips and see your viewer count grow! Before your show 1.Use the ‘LIVE’ feature of social media platforms to entice viewers to come to your show. You can be getting ready, setting up your cam room, tanning, cooking, etc… #PROTIP- To REALLY get things started I suggest streaming live on your social during the beginning of your show. Don’t worry about managing both chats, by focusing on your cam room only you’ll encourage viewers to come over from social so they can get some of your sweet, sweet attention bb. It's also a good idea to position your phone so people watching you from your social media can only see from the waist up. This will prevent an accidental violation of their nudity rules. 2. Message your fans! This works really well for models that have a fan club, or have the ability to mass message their fans. The secret to this working well is crafting a message that feels like you’re talking to one person instead of a mass “hey everyone” message. Eg. Hey bb! I was about to get ready to go online and wondered if i'm going to see you tonight? I'm in a crazy fun mood tonight lol. So if you do cum, watch out! :D Who knows what’s gonna happen. Ok, I’m gonna get ready. See you there! Ill be on at ___. After your show 1. Record what you did that day! This allows you to easily recall past shows that did well, get ideas for the future, and ensure you say thank you to the bb’s that supported you. Make a note of what type of show you did, how it went (earnings vs goal) Names of your tippers (most sites have this in the back end where you see your earnings) Who you went to private with and what you did with them in private. #PROTIP- To keep your viewers from putting their wallets away during your show it’s important that you don’t jump all over your tippers when they enter the room. This tells the other viewers in the room that a whale is here so they can sit back and stop spending. You still want to thank them though, so use the notes you’ve written to personalise a message after your show. It can be a picture, a short video, etc. This way they feel extra special and will keep coming back for more. 2. Get on your social accounts again and say a quick thank you to everyone and include a video, or pictures of your room and the aftermath of your show. MOST IMPORTANTLY tell them when you’ll be on again and invite them to your show! #PROTIP- Don’t bash viewers on your social media!!! I can not stress enough the damage this does to you and your future income!!!! Camming can be hard sometimes and it’s easy to get discouraged, but don’t quit! Add these tips to your routine and I promise you’ll see the results you’ve been looking for :) Love you bb XO ~ Your Cam Coach Nikki Night

Selling merchandise (like underwear, used toys, or even cookies) is a great way to earn tokens from devoted fans, but shipping packages always involves privacy concerns – here's a few tips on packaging and shipping your merchandise safely. Stay Safe By Hiding Your Address The first thing you need to think about when sending someone a package is safety. Thankfully there are many services that will re-mail your stuff from a very far away location. Here's how it works: You provide the package, postage and the sending address (the address of your fan). For a return address you can either make up a fake one, or use the sending address again. Put this package into another box and send it to a postage re-mailing service along with proof of payment for the service (you will see instructions on their website for how to provide this). That's all! This website is totally secure and easy to use: https://rapidremailer.com/ *European models can use: https://ghostmail.co.uk/ Hiding Your Address On Amazon Everyone loves receiving items from their Amazon wish list, but the security risks of revealing your address are BIG. Not to worry though! I have a solution that has worked for me for years. It's called PACKAGE FORWARDING and there are many options of companies that do this. Simply Google 'Package forwarding service'. I recommend shopping around to get the best price. These services can greatly affect what they charge for shipping items to you. This also works if you live outside of the US and want to buy items from Amazon that don't ship internationally. Here's how it works: These services provide you with an address to a warehouse in the US, Europe, and sometimes China as well. Put this address into Amazon and start receiving packages there! Once your Amazon package arrives at the warehouse they will email you letting you know what has arrived for you. Forward the package on to you! Thanks for reading & stay safe! Love you BB's! XO ~ Your Cam Coach NikkiNight

Getting the maximum amount of viewers is the question on every models mind, but ifyou simply follow the advice listed here you'll always have new people coming tocheck out your shows! It's important to remember that viewers go up and down dayto day, but no matter how many viewers you have in your room you should performthe same for 10 viewers as you do for 1000. Use both methods of getting viewers for lasting results When it comes to getting viewers there are two ways to get ahead of the game. One , is to use the power of 'right now' and show off your cam room on the homepageby using bright colors (red), lots of movement, moving your webcam angle, smiling,and of course broadcasting from an interesting location. Two , is to use consistency and site tools to build your following. This meansscheduling your shows so viewers know when (and where) they can perv on younext, and talking about your upcoming shows when you’re actually broadcasting.Make viewers feel welcome and invite them back! Having consistent broadcastingschedules work in another way as well. When viewers always see you online thisdevelops trust, and they will come check out your show simply because you'realways online when they are. Give them something to talk about Get involved in site contests for some free promo and the chance to win sweetprizes! You can include your viewers in the contest as well by talking about it duringyour show, asking them their opinion on how you’ll do, future ideas on how to wincontests, and keeping them posted on how you did. By doing this you’re tapping intotheir competitive nature which will get them invested in your show and get themcoming back to root for you Content is king A powerful tool you have when trying to attract a fanbase is your content, and nowmore than ever it's important that your shareable content be SFW (non-nude). Take alook through all your images and videos and ask yourself these questions. 1. How long ago was this picture taken? (try to keep images current) 2. Are all my pictures actually of me? ( sounds dumb, happens all the time)If I wasn't a performer, would I be comfortable re-tweeting this picture to myfollowers? ( even though XXX images are harder to share now, that doesn’tmean we shouldn't have our followers, followers in mind when we ask peopleto promote and share on social) 3. When viewers come to my profile while i'm offline, do I have any promovideos/pictures inviting them back to see my shows? (A promo video speaksfor you when you're not there, so let this video be a way for potential viewersto get to know you and see your sexy personality. This video will be moreeffective if its not a cum show etc...) 4. How many times have I used this picture on social media to promote myshows? ( If your image library of twitter, tumblr, Instagram all have the same4-5 images repeated in them...take new pictures) Use these tips to get new viewers and keep bringing them back bb. I know you cando it! Love you bb ~ Your Cam Coach NikkiNight

This is the process for removal. This is called de-indexing, that means that the site is harder to find using Google and Google will remove your content. How you do this: Find EVERY link for your videos that you want to take down by doing a thorough search on a few different search engines. (Google,Bing, metacrawler, etc…) Fill out this form ‘Google copyright removal’ Fill out the form (Don’t use your real name on the form, use your camming name just to be safe) You need to do a separate request for each link you want removed Google will then remove content and also give him a warning and de-index his site. The more people we have de-index him the better because that makes it harder to find him and he gets in trouble with Google. Enjoy! ~ Your Cam Coach NikkiNight

How you choose to light your room is an important part of setting the mood for your show. This doesn't mean you MUST have perfect professional lighting to achieve great results, only that you should avoid common lighting mistakes that can not only look unflattering on cam, but negatively affect the quality of your show. Apply these lighting techniques to any set-up to make you look great on cam, draw attention to your room from the home page, and help keep your viewers attention while they're in your show. 1. Reduce "light pollution" Turn the brightness of your computer screen down! When it's at full brightness, the extra light bounces back into the webcam and can interfere with the stream quality. The extra light will also make you look washed out or even blue. 2. Pick a color Make sure ALL of your lightbulbs are the same color so you don't confuse your computer with competing white light. Having more than one color of white light will throw off your webcams 'white balance' and make all the colors in your broadcast look weird, including your skin color. To prevent this from happening all you need to do is get some energy saving (LED) bulbs in a soft white or natural white color. These bulbs will last for a LONG time, save on electricity bills, and most importantly be low heat so you dont over heat in your room. 3. NO BARE BULBS ON BARE BUTTS! Whatever lighting equipment you are using make sure that you position the light so that it bounces off the walls then back onto you, lights that are pointed directly at you are harsh and can make you look like a really bright washed out ghost. Bouncing the light off the walls first creates a soft, flattering effect and will reduce unflattering shadows. Love you bb's! XO ~ Your Cam Coach NikkiNight

Use this form to effectively communicate (and establish) expectations for your moderator during your show! MODERATION AGREEMENT FORM (GOOGLE FORM) Love you bb's! ~ Your Cam Coach Nikki Night

Being successful in Public Chat is more than just getting naked, it's about knowing how to react to your chatroom and what to do when you get tipped. Staying calm and making these small changes to your show will make a BIG difference! 1. Don't Let TIPS Stop You... Don't send a PM to every viewer who sends you a tip! If you are in the middle of your show and someone tips you it's because they like what you are doing! If you stop what you are doing to send them a PM, you will train your room to not tip you because you stop the action they are tipping you for. 2. Stay Cool And Tease. When someone sends you a tip it's nice to say thank you, but don’t rip all your clothes off and get too excited, make them work for it a bit and TEASE! It's also important to NOT jump all over your tippers when they come into your room. Jumping on your whales when they come in the room (or someone who contributed a lot to your last show) can alert others to the fact that a generous viewer came in the room and could make them rely on this viewer to tip you. This can make generous viewers feel awkward and can open them up to messages from others asking for tips. Just stay cool and the tips will come. 3. Less Typing Means More Touching. Keep your chatroom alive by making everyone chat with you in your public chat. It is VERY boring to watch you type during your show and having a bunch of private conversations kills the show and the chat. When they all ask for a private message you simply say "Talk to me in here! If my hands are busy I can't do a show!" Love you bb! ~ Your Cam Coach Nikki Night